Tue, 25 November 2014
It is easy for me to smile here on Facebook or to the friends and neighbors I bump into, but much harder to always be at my kindest in a 24x7, one-to-one relationship like marriage. And please keep in mind that the word "yoga" means union, and the most common form of yoga is marriage. Most of us (particularly me) are not masters of yoga. And marriage reminds me of that each and every day. In my experience, there is no closer mirror of the mind than intimate relationships. Perhaps this is why most monks don't marry. They already have found their mirror. The rest of us find our mirror, sooner or later, in relationships, ready or not. It seems we are drawn to this by love. Amazing! |